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A  charism is defined as a gift from God for the church and the world, given as different ways of living out the Gospel.   Earlier this year, while reading the Parable of the Talents from Matthew 25:14-30 to my children, we reflected on how the master entrusted his servants with different amounts of money—talents—before going away. The servants used their talents in different ways—most invested wisely, returning with more, but one servant buried his talent, returning with nothing. We discussed how the servant’s fear of taking a risk led to his wasted opportunity. The master’s anger came not just from the servant’s inaction but from the waste of a valuable gift. This made us think about how precious resources—like money—need to be used wisely and invested thoughtfully. As we continued our discussion, it became clear that the parable is not only about money. God, like the master in the story, has entrusted each of us with unique gifts—our charisms. These aren’t just material resources, but spiritual gifts that make us who we are and help us fulfill God’s plan for our lives. They are not traits or abilities that are inherited, charisms are gifts that  depend upon God’s grace and are connected to our relationship with God and his plan for us. These gifts thrive and grow when we use them to serve others in the way God intended. I see this in my own life through my charisms of music and teaching. This year, I was blessed to have my son join the school choir I lead, where we sing songs of faith. As I taught these songs, I didn’t just want to pass on music, but messages of God’s love and presence. What a return on my ‘investment’ it has been to hear him and his classmates singing those songs—especially the ones about God—when they don’t even realize they’re doing it. I see how those songs not only help him (and the children that sing in our choir)  grow in musical ability but also strengthen their faith.  This experience has deepened my understanding of the Parable of the Talents. Just as the servants were entrusted with resources, we too are entrusted with gifts, not to keep for ourselves, but to share and invest in others. And as parents, we have a unique opportunity to model this for our children, showing them that the talents we have are meant to serve God and help those around us. So, how can we, as parents, use our talents and ‘charisms’  to serve our schools, parishes, and communities? The opportunities are endless, but here are some suggestions to consider:  Volunteer for Parent Council or School Committees – Many Catholic schools have parent councils that play a crucial role in organizing events, supporting teachers, and fostering a faith-filled environment for students. Getting involved in these groups allows you to contribute to the educational experience while also modeling the importance of serving others. Make suggestions for parent nights; volunteer if possible to be there for special events; suggest how funding might be used in ways that help support faith development.  Lead or Support Parish Ministries – Parishes offer many ways to serve, whether by leading children’s liturgy, reading at mass; assisting with youth groups, or organizing parish events. Your unique gifts—whether musical, organizational, or relational—can be put to use in helping others grow in faith. Offer Professional Skills – Many of us have professional skills—whether in finance, marketing, technology, or event planning—that can be of service to both the school and the parish. Consider offering your expertise to assist with budgeting, organizing fundraisers, or helping with technological needs. Anything from hair cutting to baking or youth group games to trivia nights! Ask if you can help support by donating your talent. Support Fundraising and Community Outreach – Schools and parishes often rely on volunteers to help organize and run fundraisers, charity events, and community outreach programs. Your participation in these efforts can directly impact the success of these initiatives and make a tangible difference in the community.   Become a volunteer or leader in  Youth Programs – As parents, we can actively mentor and lead by example. Whether through sports, extracurricular activities, or youth programs at church, your guidance can help shape the activities while instilling a love for God and a commitment to serving others. Support Family or Sacrament Programs – Catholic schools and parishes often offer programs to strengthen families and complete sacraments. Volunteering to lead or support these programs can bring you and the families of your parish closer together.  The key is to recognize that there are countless ways to use our gifts.  By getting involved, we’re not only investing in the lives of others but also setting an example for our children of how to live out the call to love God and love others. Remember, your greatest investment is in your child. Don’t bury your talents—step forward, get involved – invest your talents and watch how your actions enrich the lives of others bringing them closer to God – especially your own children so they too can share their talents in a way that God wants them too.  Want to discover your charisms, learn more about what they mean and how to use them? Take this quiz found at St.John The Evangelist Catholic Church and discover what your charisms are and how you can use them! Learn More

  As we begin this New Year, we want to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude for the trust and partnership you’ve shown in supporting your child’s education within our Catholic community. Together, we continue to nurture a spirit of faith, hope, and love that will guide our children not only in their studies but also in their personal and spiritual growth. As we move forward into a new year, let us remember the crucial role parents play in shaping the future of Catholic education. Together, parents, teachers, and school leaders can continue to foster an environment where students can thrive academically, spiritually, and socially—empowered to carry the light of Christ into the world. Parent engagement is often discussed in the context of volunteerism and participation in school activities. While these are important, true parent engagement in Catholic education is about building relationships—relationships with teachers, administrators, and fellow parents. It’s about working together to create a supportive, faith-centered environment that empowers students to grow in knowledge and virtue. In Catholic education, this engagement is not just about contributing time or resources but also about sharing a vision. Parents, teachers, and school leaders are united in the common goal of helping children develop into well-rounded, compassionate individuals who understand their place in God’s plan. Parents in Catholic education are more than just stakeholders—they are the foundation upon which a vibrant educational community is built. Through their advocacy, they ensure that Catholic schools remain places where faith and learning go hand-in-hand, where children not only grow in knowledge but also in virtue. Through advocacy, engagement, and a shared commitment to the mission of Catholic education, parents are not only helping their children succeed—they are helping to build a brighter, more compassionate world for all. We encourage and empower all parents to continue to carry the torch!  May this year be filled with abundant blessings for you and your family, with grace and peace in every step of your journey. We look forward to working alongside you in fostering an environment where your child can thrive academically, spiritually, and morally, growing ever closer to Christ. Let us keep each other in prayer as we continue to build a brighter future together, grounded in faith and love. Here’s to a bright and inspiring 2025!